Young, Wild & Free
The mysterious allure of one night stands is an interesting one. Society hasn’t evolved much on this topic in the past few decades: For men, having one night stands make you a real jack-the-lad. For women, it means your slutty. But don’t worry, we’re not going to make this a feminist rant. We’re just here to tell you that one night stands are actually ok, whether you’re male or female. And they can be pretty damn good!
Sexual experiences aren’t like the ones we were taught in school. NEWSFLASH! You don’t have to be in a loving relationship with a partner. In fact, some of the best sexual experiences can be with people you never want to see again! We’re raised to believe that love and sex go hand in hand but, the fact is, the majority of people aren’t having sex because they’re madly in love; they do it because it feels good.
One night stands can be a nice little ego boost. Hot sex with a hot guy/girl can be exactly what the doctor ordered. The rolling-around fun, the warm, breathless lust and the blissful sweet release can work wonders! One night stands can also be a good rebound from your previous relationship and help remind you what young, care-free fun is, at a time when you’re feeling a bit down in the dumps. It’s ok to not want to emotionally invest in someone – one night stands can be a chance to get your kicks without the trials and tribulations of a fully-fledged relationship.
As cliché as it is, sometimes in life, it’s important to feel young, wild and free. The likelihood is that, when the time is right, you’ll decide to settle for “the one” and you’re frivolous, free-spirited days will take a backseat. So throw caution to the wind and make the most of hooking up!
In a nutshell, sex is your human right and you’re free to do it whenever you want with whoever you want. Just make sure that you protect yourself so you don’t leave with more than you bargained for! Chlamydia has never been cool. [We might be a bit bias but ultra-thin, extra-lubricated Skins are the ultimate secret one night stand weapon!]
Now, this isn’t to say that one night stands are the way forward. Whilst there’s perks of no-strings-attached, unadulterated, gratifying sex, there’s a reason people choose to spend their lives together and enjoy a monogamous, loving relationship. But the path to finding that out is certainly part of the fun…